Wednesday, February 14, 2007

Happy Heart Day

Let's face it, Valentine's Day sucks when you are single. But that is not to say that it is always so great to be in a couple on Valentine's Day either. My point is that I have been doing a lot of soul searching this winter and even though it is Valentine's Day and I am alone, I feel pretty good about that.

Below is a new DBC Vlog reviewing Regina Spektor's song "Fidelity" and talking about what it means to be whole versus to have holes. And how we are all just trying to figure the same shit out, whether we are single, coupled or Einstein.

“A human being is part of a whole, called by us the Universe, a part limited in time and space. He experiences himself, his thoughts and feelings, as something separated from the rest a kind of optical delusion of his consciousness. This delusion is a kind of prison for us, restricting us to our personal desires and to affection for a few persons nearest us. Our task must be to free ourselves from this prison by widening our circles of compassion to embrace all living creatures and the whole of nature in its beauty.”

Albert Einstein

I shot this vlog many months ago but thought VDay would be a good time to finally edit and post the sucker. Much of the darkness I am referring to in it has, luckily, passed. But it lingers, and probably will the rest of my life. I am ok about that. It is a continuing journey but it is nice to know you are not the only one making it.

So on that note, this video goes out to my ladies who have been taking this dark journey into the great beyond by my side this winter: Suzanne, Lesh, Abbie, Lani, Margot, Tracy, Kelly, Renee, Sarah, Sophie and the Mollys.

This video also goes out to Tony in Nashville who made me the best mix CD ever and tried valliantly to post a Wikipedia entry for me (!?), to Tonci in Croatia, James in Manchester, Parisa in NYC, Travis in SF, James in Little Rock, Zack in LA, Keith in Austin, The Junk Thief in SF, Joanne in LA, Nathan in Austin, Jeff and Charlie in SF, Robin in Alameda, Lauren in Oakland, Jeff in Waterbury, Jeff in Alameda, Anne-Marie and Charity in the UK, Chris in Indiana, Tyler in ?, all my best buddies at the Flynn and 7 Days and the nice people who sent me VDay cards ... jeez, what is this my Oscar speech? The point is that love is everywhere, you just have to open your heart up and there it is!

Happy Valentine's Day everybody! xoxoxo


Q_Monroe said...

dear sweet darling valentine eva,

please do not send me gerbers at work because i won't be there! happy heart day to me. so much snow and classes are cancelled and i'm going skiing! see you tonight for our girls night. danielle is rushing me out the door (so bossy!) and i haven't had time to watch either of your vids. but i will!

love to you!

la-la-lani said...

Many smooches this VDay, if only from the marvelous and mischevious Max (and co.).

Damn you, Suz! I trudged into work and you're off skiing?!? No fair. (Even if I do have a sore tailbone from Sunday's fall at Smuggs.) How was the DATE???

Chris said...

Happy Valentines Day to you too... thanks for the two new videos in one day. I think it can hurt to be unreal too but, not always enough to motivate change. Anyhow have a grand day. Spring soon. Oh and I think you ought to have a wikipedia entry.

Q_Monroe said...

thank you for the vday vlog card. i loved it. how do you make your voice do that? you're so great!

Eva the Deadbeat said...

You guys are the tops! It was fun getting into VDay for a little bit there. This storm is so cool. I love the feeling of being buried and snowed in. Maybe I will go listen to some Regina Spektor...?